Thursday, June 24, 2010

Kids These Days

Right now I'm reading "Are There God? It's Me, Margaret" by Judy Blume. The thing that strikes me the most about this book is how innocent it is. When this book came out in 1970, it was edgy. And now it's tamer than Nick Jr. Thinking back to my own tween years, I acted a lot more like Margaret and her friends than most of the characters in modern YA and MG books.

There is so much push in popular media to make things edgy. The idea that kids are growing up younger and faster and wont relate to G rated storylines is well accepted. And when kids see edgy hero's in books and movies, it reinforces the idea that they are supposed to be growing up younger and faster.

I'm not a parent yet, and don't plan on censoring the things my kids read when I do have children. I am a big sister with the big brothers big sisters organization. I was matched with my first little sister when she was 13 years old. We saw each other once a week for two and a half years. Then when she was 15 her family moved away. I now have a new little sister who is 9. Both of my little sisters match attitudes and behaviors presented in popular media.

My 9 year old little sister has a boy friend. I hope/think that their relationship involves nothing more risque than chasing each other around on the playground. And thinking back to the good old 1980's, I was invited on a date to my elementary school carnival in 4th grade. So nine year olds dating isn't an entirely new invention.

Still I have to wonder. Should modern YA and MG writers be learning something from Judy Blume? Can eleven year old girls have angst about getting their period and their first training bra without having to through drugs and sex into the mix too?


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